Ditch the Stress and Say Yes to Your Dream Wedding. . .

Hey there, lovebirds! 🥂 If you’ve found yourself knee-deep in Pinterest boards, spreadsheets, and an endless list of “must-haves” for your big day, you’re not alone. Planning a wedding can turn from “ooh, pretty details!” to “what have I done?!” faster than you can say “first dance.” But don’t worry! With a little sassy guidance and a solid plan, you can plan your dream wedding without losing your mind—or your sense of wonder.

So pour yourself a glass of something bubbly (or just your fave wine), kick your shoes off, and let’s dive into some fabulous wedding planning tips that won’t make you want to scream into a pillow.

Setting the Budget: The Stress-Eater

Let’s get real for a moment—money talks (and sometimes it shouts). The first step to a stress-free wedding is setting a budget because “budget = peace.” Trust me on this.

• Know Your Numbers: Sit down with your partner and talk about what you’re comfortable spending. According to The Knot’s 2022 Wedding Report, the average couple spends around $28,000 on their wedding. Your budget should reflect what matters most to you both, not what a magazine suggests.

  
  

• Prioritize Like a Pro: Decide where you want to splurge and where you can save. For instance, if food is your jam, maybe opt for simple centerpieces. Catering can take up to 30% of your total budget, so allocating more to a delectable menu could be a wise choice.

  
  

• Build in a Buffer: Leave a little wiggle room (about 10% of the total budget) for those unexpected expenses that sneak up on you like a ninja.

  
  

Choosing Your Vendors: The Dream Team

Now that your budget is set, it’s time to assemble your wedding dream team. Think of it as gathering the Avengers, but for your wedding.

• Research with Purpose: Check online reviews and ask for recommendations. Alongside those beautiful Instagram pictures, look at testimonials from previous clients. For example, a wedding photographer with an overall rating of 4.8 stars or higher typically indicates reliability.

  
  

• Meet the Vibe: Schedule meetings with potential vendors. If you get that “good vibes only” feeling during your chat, go for it! If not, keep looking—this is your special day!

  
  

• Ask the Right Questions: Get your potential vendors talking! Ask about their experience with non-traditional wedding planning, flexibility in scheduling, and what their favourite part of the wedding day is. These insights can be invaluable in making your choice.

  
  

Charming wedding venue perfect for a dream celebration

Crafting Timelines: The Magic of “When”

Okay, so you’ve got your finances sorted and your dream team ready. Next up? Timelines! Let’s ensure you stay on track while keeping the fun alive.

• Hit the Ground Running: Outline your major milestones—venue booking, invitations going out, cake tasting (the important stuff!). For instance, aim to send invitations out at least 8 weeks before your wedding day.

  
  

• Don’t Sweat the Small Stuff: Focus on the big picture. If you’re stressing about finding the perfect napkin fold, take a deep breath. Remember, most guests won't even notice!

  
  

• Use a Template: The Laidback Lovers Wedding Guide is packed with customizable timelines designed to embrace a more relaxed vibe!

  
  

Decision Fatigue in a Flower Crown

Let’s be honest; trying to choose between 500 shades of ivory for tablecloths can lead to decision fatigue in a flower crown. Here’s how to tackle it:

• Limit Choices: Narrow your options to your top three. This makes it easier and way less overwhelming. For example, instead of scrolling through every floral option, pick your top three types of flowers based on your wedding colors.

  
  

• Sleep on It: If a choice feels heavy, give it a night. Sometimes, the best decisions come when you’re not actively stressing about them.

  
  

• Embrace the Imperfect: Perfection is overrated! Allow for some wiggle room and cherish the quirky things that make your wedding uniquely yours. Remember, 78% of couples say their guests remember the emotions of their day more than the details.

  
  

Making It Personal: The “You” Factor

Nothing says “we’re in love” like a wedding that reflects you. Here are some non-traditional tips to add personality to your day:

• Start with Your Story: What makes your relationship special? Incorporate elements that tell your love story, be it specific colors, special songs, or a theme reflecting your joint interests. For example, a couple passionate about travel might include table names based on destinations they’ve visited together.

  
  

• Unplugged Ceremony: Consider having an unplugged ceremony so guests can fully focus on the moment. Your professional photographer can capture candid shots during the reception instead!

  
  

• Personal Touches: Add small details like custom cocktails or a unique guestbook. A fingerprint tree or a photo booth can spark fantastic conversations among guests.

  
  

Fun & timeless decorated wedding cake reflecting YOU!

Wrapping It Up: You’ve Got This!

Planning a wedding can feel like a rollercoaster ride through a funhouse, but with the right mindset and resources, it can be an exhilarating experience. Don’t forget: it’s about celebrating love, laughter, and all the little quirks that come with it.

If you’re ready to dive deeper and plan a dream wedding without turning into a hot mess express, grab a copy of the Laidback Lovers Wedding Guide. It’s full of practical advice and tips to kick your wedding worries to the curb!

Cheers to planning without the stress! You’ve got this. 🥳

Now go out there and own your wedding planning journey like the superstar couple you are! Ready to plan your day your way- click the guide below and say hello to your wedding BFF