Hey! I’m Rachel Gray, an alternative wedding photographer who’s spent long enough working with couples to see how broken the wedding industry can be.

So many couples just want to celebrate their love their way—but there’s zero real support, barely any inclusion, and way too much pressure to fit into traditions that don’t make sense. I got sick of watching people stress over planning with no real help, so I made this guide.

The goal? To make wedding planning easy, fun, and actually about you

Yep! This IS NOT just a generic checklist—it’s a step-by-step roadmap that walks you through everything from budgeting, timelines, and vendors to guest lists, styling, and those tiny details no one warns you about. If you’re feeling lost or overwhelmed, this guide will cut through the chaos and actually make planning doable.

Think of it as the ultimate wedding workbook. It’s filled with interactive planning sections, lists, charts, sketch areas, and space to actually brainstorm your ideas. It’s not just info—it’s a tool to help you make decisions, get organized, and actually enjoy planning instead of feeling like you’re drowning in it.

It’s digital, so you can use it on any device—laptop, tablet, or phone. But if you’re the kind of person who loves to highlight, scribble notes, and physically check things off? Print the damn thing and use it like a workbook. It’s designed to be flexible AF, so you can plan however works best for you.

Let’s be real—free wedding checklists are vague AF and usually leave you with more questions than answers. This guide? It actually tells you HOW to make decisions, stay organized, and get sh*t done. No fluff, no “you must do this” rules—just real, practical advice that actually helps you move forward.

Literally any kind. Big weddings, small weddings, backyard weddings, destination weddings, elopements—you name it. This guide doesn’t assume you’re following outdated traditions or spending your life savings. It’s built to help you create a wedding that actually fits your vibe, vision, and budget.

100%. A planner might help with logistics, but this guide makes sure you stay in control of your vision. Instead of sitting back while decisions get made for you, this helps you understand what you actually want, so you can communicate it clearly and make sure the day still feels like yours.

You can jump in at any stage—whether you’ve done nothing or already booked vendors. If you’re feeling overwhelmed, unorganized, or unsure what comes next, this guide will help you get clear, get on track, and get excited about your wedding again.